Learning Scenario
German: Dating Service
| Author:
Michelle Barnett & Denise
Tanner |
In this scenario, students research dating customs in German-speaking countries with the aim of running and participating in a dating service. Written material, Internet information, and community members are consulted to gather information. Students create a personal ad in preparation for the final product: a video spot for the dating service. Each activity set contains multiple task options so that teachers may choose what best suits their situation and teaching style. This scenario may be more appropriate for high school students. Teachers should be aware of community standards and consider contemporary issues related to dating prior to implementing these activities.
ACTIVITY SET 1: Dating Customs and Issues
Students use a variety of media to investigate dating issues, comparing
and contrasting the practices of German-speaking locales with what
they know of American customs. To begin, students look through American
and German-language teen magazines or online Web-zines (see Resources
for suggested materials) to identify issues, customs, attitudes,
manners, etc. in youth dating. They use a graphic organizer such
as a T-chart
or Venn
Diagram to illustrate the similarities and differences they
find in the two dating cultures. Native speakers are excellent resources
for gathering more information on dating practices and provide an
opportunity for students to confirm their initial hypotheses. After
preparing questions as a class, students consult e-pals in a German-speaking
country, visit an online chat room designed for students, or interview
a resident foreign exchange student. Next, students investigate
relationship issues further by reading Dear Abby-type
letters in German (see Resources). Students read the letters and,
as a class, brainstorm appropriate solutions to the various predicaments,
or they may be given only the responses and asked to extrapolate
the inquirers original problem. Students then write their
own letters asking for advice on a real or imaginary problem. Letters
are collected and redistributed so that students can counsel one
another either in written or conversational form.
To illustrate their new-found knowledge of dating issues, students create a pocket dating guide for German speakers in the United States or a dating phrase book for young Americans visiting a German-speaking country.
ACTIVITY SET 2: Describing Myself and Others
In order to have a meaningful dialogue in German with a potential
date, students need to master certain conversational skills such
as discussing likes and dislikes and describing themselves and others.
To begin practicing these skills, students create graphs of their
hobbies and/or interests. They list their favorite activities on
one axis and comparative adjectives that describe degree of interest
on the other. Students then exchange graphs with a partner and take
turns describing their partners interests. Another option
is to survey the whole classs interests by creating a human
bar graph; students change places on the graph as the teacher
calls out different interests, activities, and hobbies. Students
can also play charades, acting out their various interests.
To practice describing personal characteristics, students play variations of Who is it? games in which famous people are matched with their descriptions. Such games are played orally, in game show fashion, with one student reading a description and competitors buzzing in to guess who is being described. Another game involves taping cards with famous peoples names on them to students backs. Students then ask their classmates yes or no questions to try to determine who they are.
To tie together what students have learned about describing people and expressing their interests, they create a song/rap, poem, or journal entry to tell about themselves.
ACTIVITY SET 3: The Ideal Date
To give students an opportunity to synthesize what theyve
learned and to practice writing in German, students write a short
paragraph describing their ideal date. They can combine favorite
practices from the German and American cultures, describe where
they went, what they did, etc.
(In order to describe their ideal date, students need to be able to manipulate certain structures, such as the subjunctive form. A variety of exercises can be used to help students practice these structures such as identifying structures within the authentic texts theyve studied or rewriting portions of descriptive writing tasks in the subjunctive. Many more ideas and activities of this nature can be found on the American Association of Teachers of Germans Web site at http://www.aatg.org.)
ACTIVITY SET 4: Modern Means of Mingling
Students investigate modern strategies for meeting people,
such as personal ads and dating services. They set up and run a
mock dating service where they create videos that feature either
themselves or a famous German-speaking persona (their choice). To
create the ads and video and to run the service, students use the
skills developed above (to talk about interests and describe people)
and will also need to express needs and wishes.
To begin this activity set, students research and read personal ads from German-language sources. They pay close attention to terminology, length, language, form, etc. They look at similar ads from American sources and create a comparison of American and German ads using lists, mapping, charts, etc. Next, students write German-style personal ads of their own and publish them in a class newspaper. The newspaper is distributed, and the class tries to determine who wrote each ad.
Next, students complete various tasks to prime themselves for the videotaping. There are two segments within each video: a prepared statement and an impromptu interview. Individually or as a class, students identify the kind of information that is important to mention about themselves or to find out about a potential date. For example, students brainstorm as a class to create a list, or they create mindmaps of personal characteristics and desired characteristics of a date. Based on the brainstorming and/or mindmapping activities, students work on their prepared statement for the video. They practice this piece before a classmate. They may choose to play background music while they speak.
To prepare for the impromptu interview, students work in pairs to develop (in German) a list of questions a dating service employee might ask. A class bank of questions is compiled from which the impromptu interview questions are taken. In pairs, students roleplay interviews before appearing in front of the camera. (Note: Authentic, online applications exist that could be used for ideas, vocabulary or assessment. For an example, look under the heading Partnersuche at http://grow.aatg.org/vol_1 3/web_activities/activities_pages/familiewa.html.)
In order to set up their mock dating service, students create a task list for employees and customers. The list should be detailed enough so that students playing each role know their responsibilities, both linguistically and task-wise. Students have the opportunity to play each role. During the roleplays, each student is videotaped reciting his or her prepared speech and answering questions in the impromptu interview.
- Communication: Interpersonal, Interpretative, & Presentational Modes
- Cultures: Practices & Perspectives, Products & Perspectives
- Connections: Access to Information, Other Subject Areas
- Comparisons: Nature of Language, Concept of Culture
- Communities: Within & Beyond the School Setting
- Teen magazines from the United States and German-speaking countries
- Art supplies: construction paper, markers, magazines, scissors, etc.
- "Dear Abby"-type letters (German) can be found in magazines or on the Internet
- Personal ads (German and English)
- Video camera
- Internet access for e-mail, research, and/or chat rooms
Cultures: Students research differences in dating cultures, including not only practices, but the issues encountered by teens in the two cultures and their perspectives on them. They then apply this knowledge in written and spoken ads.
Connections: The students gather target language information about dating in German speaking cultures.
Comparisons: Students compare the two dating cultures and show an understanding of the target culture through their ads and videos. They are also called upon to reflect on the benefits of each system. They may discover ways in which American pop culture is influencing German dating practices.
Communities: The use of an exchange student and/or e-mail correspondence allows student to use the language outside of the classroom context and brings the world community into the classroom.
- Students act out a dating situation in which a German and an American are out on a date.
- Students create advertisements for their dating service.
- The dating service is expanded to other class levels, with the upper level class serving as the dating service employees.
- Students host a TV-style dating game.
- Total Physical Response Storytelling (TPRS) could be used to teach date vocabulary. (For information on TPRS, visit http://www.blaineraytprs.com/.)
Books
Graves, P. (1988). Streetwise German. Chicago: NTC/Contemporary Publishing.
Ray, B. (1999). Look, I can talk! [German edition]. Los Gatos, CA: Sky Oaks Productions, Inc.
Ray, B. (2000). Mini-stories for "Look, I can talk!" [German edition]. Los Gatos, CA: Sky Oaks Productions, Inc.
Tomb, H. (1992). Wicked German. Chapel Hill, NC: Workman Publishing Company.
Webliography
NOTE: These Internet resources may have changed since publication or no longer be available. Active links should be carefully screened before recommending to students.
- http://www.aatg.org/
The American Association of Teachers of German Web site contains a multitude of resources for German teachers - http://search.about.com/fullsearch.htm?terms=german%20culture
Online Teen Magazines
(Tip: Search under Jugendmagazin for additional sites.)
- http://www.juma.de/
- http://jetzt.sueddeutsche.de/
- http://www.c6-magazin.de/
- http://skunk.de/
- http://pop-up.org/
This site is specifically geared toward young people residing in the European Union.
(Available in German, English, & Spanish.)
"Dear Abby" Sites
(Most of the above teen magazines have advice column sections.
For additional sites, search under Ratschläge.)

